To improve your user experience on the site, I have recently changed the settings on the Blogs posts so that not all latest blog posts are displayed on the homepage. Only blogs posts that the admin has "promoted" to the frontpage will be shown on the homepage.
You can always visit the Blog section to see all latest blog posts.
-- Blog posts that merely advertise "personals/wanted/looking for" are not likely to be promoted to the homepage.
-- Blogs that advertise or solicit sex could be deleted for violation of sex advertising on the blog section.