recent break-up pls help me
I know this isn't the most logical place for me to seek help about this topic but this is the only place i could think off to help me. I just experienced a recent break up from my gf. i really want to move on but i cant. i loved her very much and i cant just forget about her like that.. She thought our relationship was crumbling apart and she finally told me that our relationship wasn't going in the right direction. so she said she was falling for her best friend and told me to stay out of her life. now as much as i want to forget i just can't. pls help me anyone who has a kind heart to help pls share your words of advice
I read somewhere that the most tragic thing about a broken heart is that it doesn't really kill you =). So hang in there. People break up and make up all the time, yet the world keeps on spinning, as usual. Help yourself to move on --- cry your guts out, ignore her, try to win her back, text her to death, drown yourself in alcohol, sleep yourself to a coma, exercise obsessively --- do anything but sulk. One day, your system will get tired of being flagellated by memories of her, and you will begin to feel good about yourself again. Take care.
THHIS COULD PROBABLY HELP U FORGET ABOUT HER. IUNTOG MO ULO MO SA PADER NG MALAKAS UNG DUDUGO... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAPEACE!ÂÂÂ
Parekoy!!! Kapag may NAWAWALA/UMAALIS sa buhay mo... may dumarating na bago... balance lang ang life!!! There is a time and a reason for everything... minsan you need to face the truth or the reality or the reason why things happens... Sa una lang ang sakit... but later on tatawanan mo na lang ang nangyari kapag na-overcome mo na ang sakit na nararamdaman mo. Huwag kang mabuhay sa nararamdaman mo ngayon kundi mabuhay ka alang alang sa makikilala mo pa or para sa sarili mo... kung hindi mo siya makalimutan e di hindi... treasure the best moment you had with her and forget the worst then go on...  find another one!!! Sabi nga nila the inventor of the bulb ay hindi huminto kahit maraming failure hanggang nabuo niya ito... ganoon din.. huwag kang humintong magmahal...
i know the feeling. you want to respect her decision but your mind still want her badly and that is the reason why you cant move on even you want to. but now here i am, ok na ako. what i did is hinayaan ko lng gawin ang gusto ko. kung gusto ko siya itext, i text himkahit alam ko di siya magrereply. kung gusto ko siya makausap, i talk to him kahit di niya sinasagot tawag ko. ayoko bawalan sarili ko coz when i do that, the more i crave for him, for his love. then after all what i did to win him back,and i feel na napagod na ako sa kakahabol, then i stoped. then narealize ko na that's enough, i did my part. kung ayaw nya ok. i have still my own life even without him. now my point is wag mong pigilan yun nararamdaman mo sa kanya. ok lang kung magalit siya sa ginagawa mo para marealize mo gano kasama ex mo at pinagpalit ka. for sure magsasawa ka rin at mapapagod. and the best way to a broken heart, if there is someone new will fix it. hope you can see the girl destined for you! just patience and wait for her..."im horny here, can you lend me ur hand???" add me to your YM. im.arid@yahoo.com
Go for im.arid i did the same with her do what you feel in the end mag sasawa ka rin and feel stupid for what you did, time will come ma didiri ka sa nagawa mo hek hek sasabihin mo "biro mo yun nagawa ko im such a looser nagawa ko pala yun? eeeew! ~wEr aRt thEe my LovEs?
Dude you have to go through the process, no if no buts. Such is love, too beautiful and painful yet we keep loving despite. My two cents worth is...give it time. You'll get over the pain. And when that happens, love again. ÂÂÂ
I know mahirap para sa amin dito ang magsabi ng dapat mong gawin, because we're not in your shoes. We dont know how you really feel for her. But I can tell you this- you can try to get your mind off her by going out with your frends, or going online and reading stuff... Or you can always get a new girl. But you know what? these things might be temporary... I know this may sound odd to you and for some, but you know the best thing to do is PRAY... Pray that you'll get through this heart ache; Pray for strenght and wisdom for you to understand why she broke up with you... And pray that maybe one day, the right one would come along and both of you will be very happy. Kasi once you have accepted the fact na wala na kayo, that's really moving on... You dont have to feel bitter about things... And dont fret, coz you might miss a lot of good things if you dwell on loneliness and hatred...Just be thankful that you have experienced the feeling of loveing and being loved. But heart aches are part of relationships...Stay strong.. PRAY... You'll be fine...Sorry if its too long. Mejo nakakarelate lng... :) God bless! "Seduce my mind, capture my heart, forever..."
Naransan ko na rin yan and i know it hurts a lot, a week din akong nanghinayang sa relasyon namin but life doesn't end there tlgang ganun siguro minsan may mga pagkakataon na tlgang dumadating ang mga trials sa buhay natin alam ko kaya mo yan! di NYA ibibigay ang mga trials n yan kung alam NYANG 'di natin kakayanin at isa pa gnun tlga sa pag-ibig may pagkakataon na masasaktan ka and who knows malay mo marealize nya na bihira na ang lalaking katulad mo kung magmahal in the end kayo pa rin ang magtatagpo at magkatuluyan, panahon lang tlga ang makapagsasabi. Give her the freedom she wants ganun ang pagmamahal ibibigay mo minsan ang mga bagay na alam mong ikaw rin ang masasaktan at least naranasan mong magmahal at mahalin ka. Live life to the fullest huwag magmukmok!and2 lang ang iyong mga PS family to CHEER YOU UP!
Hi! They're right you have to move on...Just do other things to make you busy! marami nman pwedeng gawin pra mabaling ang interest mo.. It really takes time to heal wounds... I'ts not easy to let go for someone u really really love..But, what can you do? Nkahanap n sya ng iba eh! Isipin mo n lng na hindi mo sya kawalan at siya ang nawalan!(Pampalakas ng loob but true!) Di nman fair na ipaglaban mo ang love mo or one sided lng db? Give time to yourself my dear!! Just concentrate in your gigs or other thing to make you forget. Marami k p mamemeet n higit p sa kanya!Gudlak!CIAO!!!
I know it's hard to accept lalo n kung mahal na mahal mo yong taong yun dahil naranasan ko na rin ang ganyang sitwasyon. A week din akong tinatanong ang sarili ko may pagkukulang ba ako but i need to move on dahil sa 'di pa naman matatapos ang mundo it's a matter of trials lang na dumadating sa buhay natin at alam kung kakayanin mo yan and besides she don't deserve dun sa pagmamahal na binibigay mo sa kanya marerealize nya rin bandang huli na bihira na ang katulad mong totoo kung magmahal. Kung tlagang kayo sa bandang huli ay magkikita at pagtatagpuin pa rin kayo ng panahon. And2 lang ang yong PS Family to cheer you up!"LIFE IS SO SHORT, LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST"
Ang gaganda ng sets of advise na nareceive mo the13dude..It must be really hard for you to move on, lalo na pag naging part na siya ng buhay mo. In other words, nasanay ka nang anjan siya. ang masakit pa dun eh na-inlove siya sa bestfriend nya, so tragic on your part. I personally agree with one of the comments here, just let things pass and eventually malilimutan mo rin yan lahat. when you'll have the chance to look back at it, tatawanan mo na lng yan. muntik na rin kaming nagbreak ni IGW few weeks ago. i really thought it was over, and it made me break cold sweat through my skin. alam mo ung feeling na "patay, eto na nga yun. wala na kami for good." what i did was i swallowed what little pride i had left in my system and went to her house and pleaded for her to meet me outside. para akong bida sa pelikula na umiiyak sa harap ng kanyang gate habang malakas ang ulan at basang basa na. you see pare, pride lng kasi ang sumisira sa isang relationship. pero of course in your case, it was different. she fell for another guy and that is very sad.just go on with your life. masakit lang yan sa umpisa, pero hayaan mo lng na masaktan ka, that's part of it. tama ung sabi ng isa, wag mong pigilan ang sarili mo na gawin ang isang bagay. if it will help u relieve the pain, then do it. eventually you'll get over it. peace!
hmmmm....so guys, what would make you say your're finally over your ex???
For me, I think I'm finally over my ex when there is no more feeling of hatred and bitterness inside me. I mean, when I see him with someone else, I can say Im truly happy for him. Hindi yung pakitang tao lng na kunwari happy ka, but deep inside, you're wishing that it was you na kasama nia. Seeing things in a positive way is also a sign that you're moving on. Yung tipong you dont see the break up as the end of the world, but rather an opportunity to grow up and learn more lessons as you go along the way.And one more thing, you're finally over them, when you're ready to love another person, not because you feel sad of the break up or not because you miss his/her company, but because you love the person, and that you're heart is no longer bounded by the past, be it good or bad."Seduce my mind, capture my heart, forever..."
the 13dude.. I have two words for you; "FUCK HER".. it is best that she fell for her best friend now than after you were married, kundi eh may manenok ka sa ulo.. pindeho at tinurotot ng asawa.. putsa mahirap yun.. anyway if you already fuck her.. no big loss.. if you have not then you miss out sa malibog na pekpek.. Fuck the love bullshit..
I apologized to my sisters in PS, but there are some real bitch that really asking for it.. I was a victim of a bitch in my first love.. Pinaglaruan niya ang puso ko.. Inialay ko sa kanya ang lahat pero pinaasa asa niya ako kahit may iba na palang lumalamas, sumususo at kumakantot sa kanya.. she broke my heart.. I was a one woman man.. from then on, I changed my attitude towards women.. I use the the tree "F" principles.. "Find them, Fuck them and Forget them".. it worked for me.. I fucked to many women you will not believe.. two of every six women that I go out with gave me their pussy.. few virgins, some slightly used and some really loose bore already (3 na anak).. but what the hell, it's free pussy..
Maybe the 13dude, you should try it sometime.. I have my share of pussy in life between 15 years old and 50 years old.. I have not heard any complainst yet.. they are all satisfied after I am done with them..ÂÂÂ
As for the Bitch, she's been married, hiwalay twice at may tatlong anak na iba iba ang Tatay.. She tried to seduce me five years ago, but my dick will not get hard for some reason.. my hatred for her affected my libido.. Oh well shit happens sometimes!!
Lessons of the story "Fuck her, and Forget her.." sorry for being honest..
  BE COOL MEN!!! 
 Mark_Antony
Kala ko Mark mag sasuggest ka na i try ang Anal chex..so he could officially move on. he he he Lam mo naman tayong mga AssMen, laging nasa isip eh Ass keysa love. Love is nothing without a lot of Ass fucking.
plain straight dude. well said.
this is so nasty: Inialay ko sa kanya ang lahat pero pinaasa asa niya ako kahit may iba na palang lumalamas, sumususo at kumakantot sa kanya.. she broke my heart.. I was a one woman man...
tarantado din ako. but i never wanted na merong ganito, lalo nat kami pa. ok lang before me, but nor while with me... tsk
i feel you men.
TS, time lang yan. eventually sasaya ka din. meron para sayo jan. believe. meron ngang nag kaka gf ng walang ligaw e. postive brother !
guys thanks sa mga advice niyo mejo late ko na nabasa pero ok lng. nkakatouch naman ung mga sinabi niyo. parang sobrang caring niyo sakin kahit hindi tayo ganun masyado magkakilala. guys thanks talaga nakatulong kayo talaga sa buhay ko. thank you uli at godbless my PS family :)